Too Pure to Die

Partner was selected based on a wide range of parameters, some consciously, we examine some are not.
Studies show that people tend to choose a partner similar economic level, cultural or ethnic background is similar. Of course there are exceptions to this rule, then the couples who chose to meet the next person from the background as far as possible …
their main parameters can vote:

• appropriate social background
• partner’s age
• the financial situation – economic
• mirror
• His value system

Reasons that are not to choose a mate ..

Every couple of emotional language characteristic. Usually we learn that language at home parents when searching a person to live with him, looking for a desert similar emotional language he knew during his adolescence in the family. For example, a person grew up in a cold, indifferent person chooses. The goal is to find the person who knows to speak the same language and emotional, but with him it would be possible “to write a different end of the story.” Typically, our goal is to find the person with whom we will conduct our familiar emotional communication, but we will try to get better results – more than caring for one.

Typically, the same feature that connected us to the partner, because he speaks in “right here” such as apathy, is the same feature that makes us stay away. If my father was indifferent about everything I did or I said, I choose a pair of indifferent about the injustice in the world and is an excellent understand my feeling, the frustration that I feel with indifference.

So it was a couple a patient. They came to me, When the girl refuses to have sex with the guy. According to her, is critical when it comes to her, humiliating her in front of the children, too. The girl was angry, hurt, and ultimately feel distant and not even think about sex between them. The guy turn do not understand what changed. He always talked like this before She estimated his ability to “not buy anything”, what the guy does not see is that girl at the center of his attention, he criticizes her behavior as someone who runs the family. Now is not the happy couple in front of the world, but the guy in front of the girl.

How did this come out of the tangle?

Seemingly have to choose a select few will understand and stop suffering. He could learn to express himself in a less offensive. In fact, constantly monitors the girl, and she does not see what she was doing wrong. The couple’s case did not change pattern of criticism, and they also do not really learned to accept their relationship as it is. They stopped to get treatment, the tension subsided for a time, and probably a little longer they would turn to couples therapy.

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